Safety in Snobbery

Okay so part of being a snob is a security thing.

You’re safe in your snobbery. The other person you’re in a couple with is your judgement safe zone, and you can know that most of the things you say will be cool, and you know you’ll have the time to explain yourself if they’re not. And when other people do stuff you don’t like, you can hash it out with your partner afterward, chew it over and think it through without having to put a polite filter on it. And then you come up with a strategy to deal with it and that’s dealt with. Other people just see the end result and think you’re reading each other’s minds. Or that you’re both snobs. And you don’t have to care because you have each other.